Tuesday, September 8, 2015

September News

We have entered a new phase as parents! We are now officially in-laws. :-) We made a quick trip to the USA in July to join our daughter Keilah in celebrating her union in marriage with Jeremy Windler. We are glad to welcome Jeremy into the family! Although it was a crazy quick trip, we thoroughly enjoyed the time with family, friends, and our church while we were there.

And, speaking of our church, we brought back a small 'piece' of our church family back to Ecuador with us in the person of Eli Nelson, a young man from our church who is joining us for the next nine months as a short term volunteer. Eli is an energetic young fellow with a passion to serve God. We are thankful for his help!

Among the chaos of the summer, we have slowly gotten ourselves organized into beginning the school year. Kimberly has made a good start into her senior year schedule, as well as teaching her cousin Liana science this year. Eli is also helping to teach our nephew Lee several school subjects. The four young folks have already shared many adventures together---swimming and exploring at the river, a day at the hot springs, youth camp in Lita, and instituting a weekly movie and dessert night. We've also divvied out a work schedule among them! :-)

We've seen something here in the mountains we never dreamed of seeing before...cement trucks driving up past our house to the bridge construction in San Francisco! It wasn't too many years ago that a group of guys from Pennsylvania came down and helped us build a cable bridge there...back then it was a 6 hour hike from Lita!

We'd greatly appreciate your prayers for God's wisdom as we sit down with our co-workers Andy and Chrissy Shaub to plan out some goals and plans for this coming year. We long to be where God's heart is among these people. At the moment change and growth seem slow, but we are filled with confidence that God is able to complete the work of bringing each believer to maturity! (Phil 1:6)

In HIS grip,
Kevin & Kathy

Tuesday, July 21, 2015

July Update! Wedding bells in the air :-)

Our best wishes for an blessed summer for each of you! Here, thanks to the dry season, the new road is making progress, and plans for building a bridge over the river by San Francisco are underway.  A friend in the city has loaned me his motorcycle, and I have to say that pastoral visits are quite a bit more fun with my new wheels on the new road! We made it to Palmira in just over 30 minutes from our house. :-)

In just a few days, we are leaving for a whirlwind 2 weeks in the USA for our daughter Keilah's wedding on July 29th. These are exciting days for the Bruce family! We are thankful for the Lord's gracious help in planning for this wedding---for Keilah and Jeremy, who have done most of the preparations themselves in our absence; for many of you from our church, who have stepped in to help in many ways; and for our families, who are making valiant efforts to join us from all over the USA. :-)

The Shaub family, our co-workers, rejoined us in June just in time for several days of medical caravan. It's been a blessing to have Andy and Chrissy, and our niece Liana here! Being able to sit down together to place the ministry into God's hands in prayer is a special joy. We are thankful they are here to keep on in ministry while we are gone.

We'll be returning early in August with Kimberly, our nephew Lee Shaub, and Eli Nelson, a young man from our church who will be joining us to help out during the next school year.

Thank you for your continued prayers for the Awa church. While God has not shown Himself in a fiery mountain, or in a thunderous voice from the heavens, we have instead seen Him present here in His still, quiet, and gentle presence in the believers' lives. At this point, Milton still has not re-joined the congregation, but God is softening the hearts of the believers to be ready to receive him again. Notably Paulino and Gloria have finally become convinced from hearing the truth of God's word, that God would have them forgive their brother. Last week, for the first time, Paulino prayed that his brother would re-join the group.  We continue to seek Milton out to encourage and disciple him as he struggles to re-build his 
relationship with his wife and family. Some days are better than others, as he battles his own sinful attitudes...he, too, has areas where he needs to forgive his family. Colossians 3:12-14 expresses God's desire for the church here, "So, as those who have been chosen of God, holy and beloved, put on a heart of compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience; bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, whoever has a complaint against anyone; just as the Lord forgave you, so also should you. Beyond all these things put on love, which is the perfect bond of unity." (NASB)
In HIS grip,
Kevin & Kathy

Saturday, June 6, 2015

June Update

In the spirit of our Bruce Brief (which is usually anything but 'brief'!) we wanted to give you an update on what is going on here and how God is at work. We have been greatly encouraged and blessed by your notes, prayers, and encouragement--God has given us a new appreciation for the body of Christ, and the way we share in His kingdom, no matter how many miles apart we may be! THANK YOU for caring and sharing in the ministry here!

May 19th we were finally able to talk with Milton again, encouraging him to repent and return to walking with God again. Three days later, on May 22nd, Milton came to our house and talked for a long time. This is the gist of what he said that morning: "Repentance is coming to me. I was living in sin, doing what was wrong, and I found I couldn't live without Christ. I just can't stand living without Him anymore. I know He is calling me to come back to Him, I have heard His voice calling me. I know He is wanting to forgive me. So I left my sister-in-law and now I am returning to God and returning to my wife and my family. I am really hungry for God's word, and I want to do what is right. I am really sad over what I have done, and I realize that I've damaged many people, and damaged God's name."

Since that day, Milton has come to visit several times, and the fellowship with him has been truly sweet. Thursday night we had our first time of Bible study together. He is greatly humbled, and has a new appreciation for Christ's suffering and death for him, paying for his sin. He is amazed that his wife Delia has been willing to receive him again and to forgive  him. He is thrilled to be back with his kids again, especially his littlest one, baby Sonia, who is just three months old.
Sunday (May 24th) Milton came to church, to join the group of believers, for the first time since before Christmas. He was embarrassed, feeling much shame for his actions, but affirmed his desire to return to God before the group of believers, acknowledging his guilt. I explained to the group that Milton can no longer be an elder, or have a position of teaching the Bible, but that he desires to return to the church to listen and to fellowship together.  We went over 2 Corinthians chapter 2, where Paul encourages the Corinthians to receive the repentant one, so that this man would not be overcome by sorrow.

The group of believers, many of them Milton's family, were very quick to respond...each one taking a turn to talk. Kathy and I were a bit blown away by their response, as they loudly and clearly said that they were not ready to receive Milton; he could not return to the group; if he came to church, none of them would come.

In all the angry talking, God did reveal many heart attitudes. Last year, as we left the church for the 8 months we were in the USA, we realized that it would be a time of testing for the believers. And it does seem like God is using the present situation to reveal hearts...what was said, over and over, was that because Milton had done wrong, and caused them (as fellow believers) to suffer in the community, now they really want Milton to suffer. Many of them pointed out Milton's 'badness' and then listed their own 'goodness'. Many things were said, and much of it was not pretty! In the end, I told the believers that we would wait a month, with Milton not joining us on Sundays, but just coming to be taught another day of the week. During that time they could watch Milton, to see if he was truly repentant...also, that they could see what God would say to them, how He wants them to respond, and I would continue to teach them and Milton separately  what God's word says.

Thanks for your continued prayers. We are thankful for God's revealing of heart attitudes, and greatly desire your prayers that I would know how to clearly teach these people over the next month! I believe that God is wanting to teach the group a deeper understanding of their own sinfulness, which will help them to be able to come to the cross of Christ in a new way, allowing them the humility to forgive. The way they are acting now is according to their traditional Awa customs...it would seem God is calling them to grow in their understanding of His grace and mercy. Last Sunday was a good day and I saw glimpses of hearts softening.

So many of you have told us that you are praying for these very issues! Thank you. Recently we are reading the book "The Prodigal God" by Timothy Keller, and are encouraged by a clearer understanding ourselves not only of the sinfulness and repentance of the younger brother; but also in the elder brother's superior attitude. Both of the brothers were called to repent by a loving Father.

Pray for our hearts, that we would continually be coming to our Father in repentance ourselves, and that our actions and teaching would be in alignment with His loving grace to all involved.
We are thankful for many answers to prayer:

-Milton's repentance and return to fellowship with God and his family; Delia's willingness to forgive him; and the opportunity for the rest of the believers to grow spiritually.
-God's continued grace and work in Kimberly's heart, faithfully doing His work to teach and mature her. (She has now taken off to work at camp in Missouri, her first solo trip navigating the airports all by herself! We are missing her already! Click here to see her camp letter.)
-God's protection for Keilah in a car accident in mid-May in NH...she was fine although her car didn't come out of it very well after hitting three trees!
-Praise the Lord for the provision of a truck. We purchased a 2009 D-max 4-door pickup truck last week. Apparently it can seat about 25! :-)

In HIS grip,
Kevin & Kathy

Saturday, May 9, 2015

May 2015


Greetings from Rio Verde! Just as many of you are enjoying the coming of Spring, we are also happy to be here in the beautiful climate of these green mountains again! God has created so much beauty around us! Each day the toucans gather around to sing, and the hydrangeas and other flowers are in full bloom. The fruitfulness of this area is impressive, with bananas and plantains, papayas, naranjilla fruit, yucca root, and lemons, oranges, and tangerines growing in abundance.

We are thankful for God's daily grace. He has brought joy into our lives in these days--in the smiling faces of many of our Awa friends who are happy to welcome us; in those who have come each Sunday with an earnest desire to listen and learn and grow; in the five cute little babies that God has added to the fellowship while we are gone. This last Sunday after church, 17 of us made an excursion down to Paulino's parent's house to pick tangerines....how fun it was to laugh and share the fun together! In these moments God gently re-confirms in our hearts that we are exactly where He wants us to be.

So many of you are praying for the situation with Milton. We have no desire to sound like a soap opera--and yet we wish to update you so you can join us in prayer---hopefully we can somehow balance out those two desires! There is much at stake for the Awa church; literally several hundred people up and down this valley are onlookers in what is going on. At this time, Milton continues in the relationship with his sister-in-law, Delia's sister. Several times he has come to talk to Delia, saying that he is going to 
leave the sister and return to Delia, but we have yet to see any action behind his words.

We've been seeing that culturally, the Awa people in general (including the believers) believe that Milton has done the unpardonable...that the problems he has created are SO bad...that, therefore, he is stuck in this mess with no possible way out. It's difficult for them to grasp how forgiveness could be applied here in any way. We are thankful for the HOPE that we have in remembering that God is the Great Redeemer, and that no-one is beyond the reach of His great mercy. Please pray for us to have wisdom as we continue to reach out to Milton in compassion, yet wanting to clearly speak truth into his life. We quite regularly feel inadequate for such a task! (2Cor. 3:5)

God has amazed us with a big change in someone else...in Delia...someone we perhaps least expected! Two months ago, when Milton had first tried to return home and ask for her forgiveness, she angrily responded by threatening to kill him, burn all his clothes and belongings, and otherwise do him all the harm she was able to. But over the last few weeks, she has faithfully come to the Bible teaching each Sunday, listening to how Jesus interacted with people with love and compassion. Many days she has stopped by the house here to talk and ask questions, asking us what God would have her to do in this situation. We have seen God working to change her heart. Recently she had a calm conversation with Milton, sharing with him that she has changed, and she is willing to forgive him and to receive him back if he is serious in wanting to follow God and to do what is right. This despite what she is hearing from the rest of her family, as they have counseled her to never allow him to return, and to instead, just beat him up with a big stick! It's been neat to see her earnest desire to do what God would have her to, and the way God has gentled her heart. Her life these days is not easy, as she struggles to feed six kids, and get four of them off to school each day. A special joy in her life right now is baby Sonia, three months old, who is a sweet, happy, healthy baby. She makes Delia smile!
 
Recently I went over Jesus' parable of the prodigal son with the believers. In the Awa culture, where their land has so much value, it was a terrible thing the younger son did---selling his inheritance and squandering the money. How amazing it is that the father would forgive him and allow him to return home! The believers have much to think on in these days. We appreciate your continued prayers as we seek to impart these truths to the Awa church. If Milton repents, and returns to Delia, the two of them will need the encouragement and support of the church here in order to make it work.

On the family front, we continue to prepare with Kimberly as she hopes to work at Whispering Winds Bible Camp this summer, in Missouri; Kenny continues to work at Liberty in VA, and our family is gearing up toward Keilah and Jeremy's wedding in NH the end of July. Here is a link to their wedding announcement and invitation, for those who are interested; perhaps some of you might join us that day! :-)
In HIS grip,               
Kevin & Kathy

Tuesday, April 7, 2015

Thanks so much for your prayers!

We are back in the city after spending Easter weekend with the Awa in the mountains. Although we wondered how things would go, we were thankful to be able to have the Believers' Conference with the Awa who came. Some of the ladies worked hard to cook lunches for all, and, thanks to Kimberly's ideas, we even managed to play some games on Saturday afternoon! It was good to see our Awa friends again, and they received us happily.

At the same time, we saw much brokenness and sadness among the believers, as they recounted to us what had happened while we were gone. Many of the believers wanted to give up being a part of God's family, because of the shame of the situation with Milton and his unfaithfulness. Many of the folks shared about how they had to make a choice...would they keep following God, or not? It was a blessing for us to hear most of the main group (eight or nine families represented) clearly tell how they had chosen to "stay"  with God. They shared how they are being laughed at and scorned by the rest of the Awa in the communities, for following a God who is 'worthless'.

We had four teaching times over the weekend, and Kevin taught from the life of Jesus, reminding them that Jesus was perfect, that He loved and forgave sinners, and then of His death for our sins, and His joyous resurrection. Kevin also went over the account in John 8 of the Pharisees bringing to Jesus the woman caught in adultery...of how Jesus said to them, "Let him who is without sin among you cast the first stone."  It gave the group much to think about...as it's easy, in the face of Milton's sin, to have a self-righteous attitude.

Monday morning Kathy and I went out early looking for Milton. By God's grace, we 'chanced' upon him on the road, further up the valley. In just a minute more, he would have crossed the river, to work in a field across the way, and we would have missed him! God's timing is perfect. We had a long talk with him and we can see that  God is at work. He shared with us how much he is suffering (he is sick and thin, the food was stolen from the property where he is supposed to be watching, his kids are a mess, his wife won't forgive him, everyone is angry with him and threatening to kill him, he knows he has done wrong, and feels the heavy weight of guilt). He said over and over, with tears, "But I did wrong, and it's my fault. I carry the blame. I've just been waiting for God to punish me, maybe He will just kill me."

We were thankful for the time with him, and were able to remind him, that's why Jesus died! For our sins...even for this. He suffered so much, shedding His blood, to pay that debt for us...because He loves us. We are still His children, and He won't abandon us, and He is still able to help us, even in this hard situation. We prayed together with him, right there on the road, asking God for His help, and promised him that we'd sit down together, over the next few weeks, and study God's word together, looking for God's help and what His word says and where to go from here. Pray that God will continue to work out true repentance in Milton's heart--not just a recognition of his sin, but a turning to God in trust and obedience.

Thank you for being here with us by your prayers! There is a big gulf of sin, hurt, sadness, and anger here among the believers...a large space for God to work! Our hearts are encouraged knowing that HE IS ABLE! May His glory be lifted high here among the Awa.

In HIS grip,
Kevin & Kathy

From slippery snow to slick mud in just a few days was a bit of a shock to our system!
Enjoying the humid warm open air chapel
There were four new babies for us to meet
We had fun with our new self inflating soccer ball

Thursday, April 2, 2015

We are back in Ecuador!

Just a quick note to say that we arrived safely here in Ecuador late Tuesday night. Thanks so much for your prayers! We had a grand reunion with the Liebenzell team yesterday, and it was good to re-connect with each one and to catch up on field news. Tomorrow we head to the mountains and we'll jump right into the Awa Conference with whoever shows up---so we'd appreciate your prayers.

Happy Easter! There is much joy in our hearts as we remember the resurrection. May you also rejoice in such a great salvation that He has provided for us!

Kevin & Kathy, and Kimberly

PS here is a picture of when Kenny and Sophia came to visit us in March. :-)